Surrender to Holiness

On the Tuesday before Ash Wednesday, I was thinking about Lent and I asked the Lord what kind of observance I should do for Lent.   The thought went thru my mind: "Surrender to holiness".  As I wondered what this might mean, my first impression was that it meant: "Let go and let God!"  This seemed fairly obvious to me and, it can mean just that.   In truth, it can be summed up in this well written article on Wikipedia:   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrender_%28spirituality_and_psychology%29     As I felt drawn to ponder the phrase further,  I began to think there might a much deeper and more profound meaning of the phrase for my life. 

My first thought was to define the word "Surrender".   We hear it all the time in our society.   We have bakeries named "Sweet Surrender", songs titled "Sweet Surrender".  Actually, the term "Sweet Surrender"  seems to be just about everywhere.   Truly, it is over used.   So, I turned to my dear friend Miriam  (Webster that is) for a definition.   When I read the definition of Surrender, I realized there is nothing sweet about it.   According to the dictionary,  the definition of surrender is:

1:  to give up completely or agree to forgo especially in favor of another
2:  to give (oneself) up into the power of another especially as a prisoner

Surrender is not only unpleasant, it is often painful.   I mean, who wants to give anything up to another?   We humans tend to be a rather possessive lot, not easily letting go of the things that are important to us, especially if it means giving up our freedom or our own way of doing things.   Yet, surrender is what I feel called to do. 

Then  my next question was:  "Surrender to what?"   My first thought was "Surrender to God...of course!".   But that isn't the phrase that kept going thru my head.   The phrase I hear over and over is "Surrender to holiness". 

I can honestly tell you I thought I knew what holiness is.   But, again, I felt compelled to look the definition up.   It isn't at all what I thought it meant.   I thought "holiness" meant being very good and living a life for God...living a very good life for God.    However, according to this article, the concept of "good" doesn't enter into the definition of holiness at all.   http://www.tektonics.org/whatis/whatholy.php    According to the author of this article, "good" is what we become as a result of being holy.  I was surprised. 

It appears the definition of "holy" or "holiness" means to be set apart.   I never knew that.   At first sight, the idea of being set apart for God brings great joy...and well it should.   It means that, as Christians, we have been chosen by Him to be His people.   As the prophet Ezekiel said  "You will be my people and I will be your God."    Those words have always brought comfort to me.

As we are set apart by God, for God, we become more like God, and begin to take on more and more of HIs attributes.   As we take on more of His attributes, He becomes more and more a part of our identity.  Eventually, the more we surrender to being set apart, to being holy, the more of our selves we are able to surrender to Him, and the more of Himself He surrenders to us.  In the end, we become completely  His and He becomes completely ours.  Our identities become  inextricably  entwined with His.   We have become one in Him. 

Yet, as Lent has progressed, I've learned that being set apart is often hard and painful.   It means we often don't  fit in with the crowd.    It doesn't matter whether the group we want to belong to is in a social situation, or a work situation or any other situation we may find ourselves in.   It means that we can not truly be a part of the group, that we can not always go along with the crowd.   It means  there are times when we have to deliberately choose to do or say something that is different from the accepted norms.   To do so means to risk ridicule, criticism or even rejection.   Yet this is what we must do if we are going to be true  to our identity as God's holy people and also true to ourselves.

This is a difficult thing for me.   I have always wanted to be a part of "the group".   I've always wanted to "belong" and yet,  somehow, I have always felt like I don't quite fit in.   Perhaps this  is as it should be.  Perhaps this is the Lord's way of reminding me that I really shouldn't "fit in" with everyone else.   Perhaps it is a reminder for me to keep my eyes focused on Him instead of on everyone and everything around me.

Being set apart also means we can not allow ourselves to be swept up by the tidal wave of consumerism and pseudo individualism which defines our society .   We can not allow ourselves to be seduced into believing that we have to have the latest gadget, clothes, car, etc.  if we want to be individuals.  In truth, the forces which control our society are leading us to become carbon copies of each other.  We have become a society of clones where no one is really very different from anyone else.  To surrender to holiness means that we can not surrender to the world.  We are to be in this world, but not of it.

If we do surrender to the call of our society to become like everyone  else,  then we will no longer be set apart, identifiable as God's people.   We will not only loose our holiness, we will loose our identity.  We will become like many of the Jews in the Babylonian captivity.  When King Cyrus finally set the Jews free and allowed them to go back to Jerusalem, many of them decided to stay right where they were...in Babylon.  Their Babylonian identity had become so strong that they lost their identity as Jews.  They had lost their holiness....they were no longer set apart.

If we surrender to being set apart, we will begin to grow in the Lord.   We will become the individuals we were meant to be.  If we persevere in our journey, we will become identifiable as God's people in the eyes of the world.   We will bear His light to the rest of mankind and to each other.   We will, in fact, have become holy.

Mother of Sorrow Rosary Beads Pewter Blue Goldstone Wire Wrapped Unbreakable

In this rosary, Our Mother of Sorrows is comforted by midnight blue beads that have flecks of silver foil that sparkle like the stars in the night sky. The Aves are 8mm blue goldstone beads and the Pater beads are 12mm blue goldstone beads. Goldstone is a misnomer because it is not stone. It is actually dark blue transparent glass that copper and silver foil flecks have been mixed into. The result is a beautiful, sparkly bead that dances in the light. I've have tried my best to capture the sparkly nature of these beads, but sadly the sparkles look like white specs in the beads.   Please click here to learn more about this rosary and please visit my shop, Holy Name Rosaries, to see more of my unbreakable rosaries and rosary bracelets.

How to Pray the Stations of the Cross

This is a wonderful meditation for Lent as well as for any other time of the year.   On a personal note,  I converted to Catholicism after praying the Stations of the Cross every day for Lent 20 years ago.   So the Stations hold a very special place in my heart.

Sometimes known as the Stations of the Cross rosary, this chaplet consists of 14 medals separated by 3 beads.   Each of the medals depicts one of the Stations and is often numbered as well to make it easy to keep your place while praying.  The chaplet also has a “pendant” comprised of a crucifix and 6 beads.

Crucifix:  Pray the Apostle’s Creed

First Bead: Pray and Act of Contrition

My God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance, to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Our Savior Jesus Christ suffered and died for us.
In His Name, my God, have mercy.   Amen

Second Bead: A Prayer to Christ Crucified.  

Behold, O kind and most sweet Jesus, I cast myself on my knees in Your sight and with the most fervent desire of my soul, I pray and beg you to impress upon my heart lively sentiments of faith, hope and charity, with true repentance for my sins, and a firm desire of amendment, while with deep affection and grief of soul I ponder within myself and mentally contemplate Your five most precious wounds: having before my eyes that which David spoke in prophecy:  They have pierced My hands and My feet; they have numbered all My bones.”  Amen

Third Bead: A prayer for the Deceased

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon them: and may all the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.  Amen.

Fourth Bead:   Pray the Our Father

Fifth Bead:  Pray one Hail Mary

Sixth Bead: Pray one Glory Be

First Station of the Cross: Jesus is Condemned to Death

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

THE Holy, Just, and True was judged by sinners, and put to death. Yet, while they judged, they were compelled to acquit Him. Judas, who betrayed Him, said, "I have sinned in that I have betrayed the innocent blood." Pilate, who sentenced Him, said, "I am innocent of the blood of this just person," and threw the guilt upon the Jews. The Centurion who saw Him crucified said, "Indeed this was a just man." Thus ever, O Lord, Thou art justified in Thy words, and dost overcome when Thou art judged. And so, much more, at the last day "They shall look on Him whom they pierced"; and He who was condemned in weakness shall judge the world in power, and even those who are condemned will confess their judgment is just.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be.
V. Have mercy on us, O Lord.
R. Have mercy on us.
May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

 

The Second Station: Jesus receives His Cross

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

JESUS supports the whole world by His divine power, for He is God; but the weight was less heavy than was the Cross which our sins hewed out for Him. Our sins cost Him this humiliation. He had to take on Him our nature, and to appear among us as a man, and to offer up for us a great sacrifice. He had to pass a life in penance, and to endure His passion and death at the end of it. O Lord God Almighty, who dost bear the weight of the whole world without weariness, who bore the weight of all our sins, though they wearied Thee, as Thou art the Preserver of our bodies by Thy Providence, so be Thou the Saviour of our souls by Thy precious blood.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be & C

The Third Station: Jesus falls under the weight of the Cross the first time

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

SATAN fell from heaven in the beginning; by the just sentence of his Creator he fell, against whom he had rebelled. And when he had succeeded in gaining man to join him in his rebellion, and his Maker came to save him, then his brief hour of triumph came, and he made the most of it. When the Holiest had taken flesh, and was in his power, then in his revenge and malice he determined, as he himself had been struck down by the Almighty arm, to strike in turn a heavy blow at Him who struck him. Therefore it was that Jesus fell down so suddenly. O dear Lord, by this Thy first fall raise us all out of sin, who have so miserably fallen under its power.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be & C

 

The Fourth Station: Jesus meets His Mother

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

THERE is no part of the history of Jesus but Mary has her part in it. There are those who profess to be His servants, who think that her work was ended when she bore Him, and after that she had nothing to do but disappear and be forgotten. But we, O Lord, Thy children of the Catholic Church, do not so think of Thy Mother. She brought the tender infant into the Temple, she lifted Him up in her arms when the wise men came to adore Him. She fled with Him to Egypt, she took Him up to Jerusalem when He was twelve years old. He lived with her at Nazareth for thirty years. She was with Him at the marriage-feast. Even when He had left her to preach, she hovered about Him. And now she shows herself as He toils along the Sacred Way with His cross on His shoulders. Sweet Mother, let us ever think of thee when we think of Jesus, and when we pray to Him, ever aid us by thy powerful intercession.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be & C

 

The Fifth Station: Simon of Cyrene helps Jesus to carry the Cross

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

JESUS could bear His Cross alone, did He so will; but He permits Simon to help Him, in order to remind us that we must take part in His sufferings, and have a fellowship in His work. His merit is infinite, yet He condescends to let His people add their merit to it. The sanctity of the Blessed Virgin, the blood of the Martyrs, the prayers and penances of the Saints, the good deeds of all the faithful, take part in that work which, nevertheless, is perfect without them. He saves us by His blood, but it is through and with ourselves that He saves us. Dear Lord, teach us to suffer with Thee, make it pleasant to us to suffer for Thy sake, and sanctify all our sufferings by the merits of Thy own.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be & C

 

The Sixth Station: The Face of Jesus is wiped by Veronica

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

JESUS let the pious woman carry off an impression of His Sacred Countenance, which was to last to future ages. He did this to remind us all, that His image must ever be impressed on all our hearts. Whoever we are, in whatever part of the earth, in whatever age of the world, Jesus must live in our hearts. We may differ from each other in many things, but in this we must all agree, if we are His true children. We must bear about with us the napkin of St. Veronica; we must ever meditate upon His death and resurrection, we must ever imitate His divine excellence, according to our measure. Lord, let our countenances be ever pleasing in Thy sight, not defiled with sin, but bathed and washed white in Thy precious blood.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be & C

 

The Seventh Station: Jesus falls a second time

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

SATAN had a second fall, when our Lord came upon earth. By that time he had usurped the dominion of the whole world—and he called himself its king. And he dared to take up the Holy Saviour in his arms, and show Him all kingdoms, and blasphemously promise to give them to Him, His Maker, if He would adore him. Jesus answered, "Begone, Satan!"—and Satan fell down from the high mountain. And Jesus bare witness to it when He said, "I saw Satan, as lightning, falling from heaven." The Evil One remembered this second defeat, and so now he smote down the Innocent Lord a second time, now that he had Him in his power. O dear Lord, teach us to suffer with Thee, and not be afraid of Satan's buffetings, when they come on us from resisting him.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

The Eighth Station: The Women of Jerusalem mourn for Our Lord

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

EVER since the prophecy of old time, that the Saviour of man was to be born of a woman of the stock of Abraham, the Jewish women had desired to bear Him. Yet, now that He was really come, how different, as the Gospel tells us, was the event from what they had expected. He said to them "that the days were coming when they should say, Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that have not borne, and the breasts which have not given suck." Ah, Lord, we know not what is good for us, and what is bad. We cannot foretell the future, nor do we know, when Thou comest to visit us, in what form Thou wilt come. And therefore we leave it all to Thee. Do Thou Thy good pleasure to us and in us. Let us ever look at Thee, and do Thou look upon us, and give us the grace of Thy bitter Cross and Passion, and console us in Thy own way and at Thy own time.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Ninth Station: Jesus falls the third time

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

SATAN will have a third and final fall at the end of the world, when he will be shut up for good in the everlasting fiery prison. He knew this was to be his end—he has no hope, but despair only. He knew that no suffering which he could at that moment inflict upon the Saviour of men would avail to rescue himself from that inevitable doom. But, in horrible rage and hatred, he determined to insult and torture while he could the great King whose throne is everlasting. Therefore a third time he smote Him down fiercely to the earth. O Jesus, Only-begotten Son of God, the Word Incarnate, we adore with fear and trembling and deep thankfulness Thy awful humiliation, that Thou who art the Highest, should have permitted Thyself, even for one hour, to be the sport and prey of the Evil One.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Tenth Station: Jesus is stripped of His Garments

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

JESUS would give up everything of this world, before He left it. He exercised the most perfect poverty. When He left the Holy House of Nazareth, and went out to preach, He had not where to lay His head. He lived on the poorest food, and on what was given to Him by those who loved and served Him. And therefore He chose a death in which not even His clothes were left to Him. He parted with what seemed most necessary, and even a part of Him, by the law of human nature since the fall. Grant us in like manner, O dear Lord, to care nothing for anything on earth, and to bear the loss of all things, and to endure even shame, reproach, contempt, and mockery, rather than that Thou shalt be ashamed of us at the last day.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Eleventh Station: Jesus is nailed to the Cross

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

JESUS is pierced through each hand and each foot with a sharp nail. His eyes are dimmed with blood, and are closed by the swollen lids and livid brows which the blows of His executioners have caused. His mouth is filled with vinegar and gall. His head is encircled by the sharp thorns. His heart is pierced with the spear. Thus, all His senses are mortified and crucified, that He may make atonement for every kind of human sin. O Jesus, mortify and crucify us with Thee. Let us never sin by hand or foot, by eyes or mouth, or by head or heart. Let all our senses be a sacrifice to Thee; let every member sing Thy praise. Let the sacred blood which flowed from Thy five wounds anoint us with such sanctifying grace that we may die to the world, and live only to Thee.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Twelfth Station: Jesus dies upon the Cross

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

“It is finished!”   It is completed—it has come to a full end. The mystery of God's love towards us is accomplished. The price is paid, and we are redeemed. The Eternal Father determined not to pardon us without a price, in order to show us special favor. He condescended to make us valuable to Him. What we buy we put a value on. He might have saved us without a price—by the mere fiat of His will. But to show His love for us He took a price, which, if there was to be a price set upon us at all, if there was any ransom at all to be taken for the guilt of our sins, could be nothing short of the death of His Son in our nature. O my God and Father, Thou hast valued us so much as to pay the highest of all possible prices for our sinful souls—and shall we not love and choose Thee above all things as the one necessary and one only good?

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Thirteenth Station: Jesus is laid in the arms of His Blessed Mother

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world.

HE is Thy property now, O Virgin Mother, once again, for He and the world have met and parted. He went out from Thee to do His Father's work—and He has done and suffered it. Satan and bad men have now no longer any claim upon Him—too long has He been in their arms. Satan took Him up aloft to the high mountain; evil men lifted Him up upon the Cross. He has not been in Thy arms, O Mother of God, since He was a child—but now thou hast a claim upon Him, when the world has done its worst. For thou art the all-favoured, all-blessed, all-gracious Mother of the Highest. We rejoice in this great mystery. He has been hidden in thy womb, He has lain in thy bosom, He has been suckled at thy breasts, He has been carried in thy arms—and now that He is dead, He is placed upon thy lap. Virgin Mother of God, pray for us.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be, & C.

 

The Fourteenth Station: Jesus is laid in the Sepulchre

V. We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee.
R. Because by thy holy Cross thou hast redeemed the world..

JESUS, when He was nearest to His everlasting triumph, seemed to be farthest from triumphing. When He was nearest upon entering upon His kingdom, and exercising all power in heaven and earth, He was lying dead in a cave of the rock. He was wrapped round in burying-clothes, and confined within a sepulchre of stone, where He was soon to have a glorified spiritual body, which could penetrate all substances, go to and fro quicker than thought, and was about to ascend on high. Make us to trust in thee, O Jesus, that Thou wilt display in us a similar providence. Make us sure, O Lord, that the greater is our distress, the nearer we are to Thee. The more men scorn us, the more Thou dost honour us. The more men insult over us, the higher Thou wilt exalt us. The more they forget us, the more Thou dost keep us in mind. The more they abandon us, the closer Thou wilt bring us to Thyself.

Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be,  and C.

Cardinal John Henry Newman

Credits:  

The pendant meditations from “My Treasury of Chaplets by Patricia S. Quintiliani

Meditations for the Fourteen Stations were written by Cardinal John Henry Newman 

Stations of the Cross Chaplet

In honor of Lent I am offering another Stations of the Cross chaplet.   It is very much like the chaplet I posted earlier in the week except that the beads are 5mm by 6mm Hematite.   Hematite is also known as The Bloodstone, Hema being derived from the Greek word for blood.   It seems strange that a stone, a mineral actually, that is a shiny, silvery gray color should be known as the Bloodstone.  However, if you break a piece of Hematite open, the center of it is red.   What stone can be more appropriate to use to meditate on the Via Crucis where Christ shed his scared blood for us.   Please click here to learn more about this chaplet and please visit my shop HolyNameRosaries.com to see more of my unbreakable rosaries and chaplets. 

Men's Pardon Rosary Copper, Sterling and Onyx

The amazing Pater beads in this handsome rosary are solid copper with sterling silver randomly brazed onto the surface. They were handcrafted by the owner of Refined by Fire here on Etsy. The Avé beads are 6mm onyx beads. The wire is solid copper which has been antiqued. The Indulgence crucifix is also known as the Pardon crucifix. Special indulgences can be obtained from St Pius X by praying on this crucifix or kissing it. The crucifix is copper plated brass as is the Miraculous Medal.   Please click here to learn more about this rosary and please visit my shop at LaudeArtsandGifts.com to see more of my unbreakable rosarie